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This narrows down an already small base of elite daters, but that is exactly why people choose SEI Club. To decide whether to accept an applicant, matchmakers determine if the interested single has the outlook, ambition, and relationship expectations that would make him or her an ideal match for another member.
If that review is favorable, the potential member consults with a matchmaker via Skype or FaceTime. Why such a rigorous screening process? SEI Club wants to create long-lasting relationships between elite daters. SEI Club attracts elite singles because of its track record of results and discretion. Further, SEI Club differentiates itself from other elite matchmaking companies through its traditional mindset when building relationships between men and women.
Women choose a hunter and allow themselves to be courted. Membership spans a variety of levels with non-private options for matchmaking on the lower end of the cost spectrum. Once a matched couple meets, they have the option to date exclusively or continue seeking other pairings.
If a couple decides to date only one another, both individuals are taken off the SEI Club market. Any 'good' man who signed up reported being set up with a trophy-like young woman who was clearly just looking for financial stability. And the 'good' women who signed up reported being overly objectified and not set up with quality men at all. So what's the deal? Can't the representatives at S. Is this all a glorified sex-date-superficial-fly-by-night-pseudo-relationship thing? I don't understand, but I'm writing this today in hopes that if any other man or woman is looking to invest time, money, energy, hope into finding 'true love' through a matchmaking service This is a letter I sent to Selective Search.
I am an attorney with an impressive pedigree, and a very attractive one at that. I have never felt like a bigger piece of meat. Something that I did not mention in the letter, when my friend unfortunately signed up, the company sent her a Facebook request to see more pictures, after I saw that she had already submitted many pictures. I saw the pictures she sent, she is gorgeous and a surgeon. Then they set her up with a guy that made degrading remarks and was not even close to being on the same level of attractiveness, not even in the ballpark.
I understand that things don't work out, and that is how dating goes, but I am 37 and truly look 27 and they were setting me up with year-old men. I actually gave the "plastic surgeon" a chance, even though we clearly looked awkward together. He seemed shy and endearing at first; then I got a more accurate picture.
He is quiet and judgmental and has an ego the size of Jupiter in my opinion. He was absolutely, positively not interested in a relationship. He was interested in giving me 3 hours of time a week if that and sex, end of story. They did not screen this guy to see if he was actually "commitment-minded. Ladies, if you sign up for the service, really ask about how "commitment-minded" these men are. Do your homework and don't assume anything. Also, try to get a picture first, it will save you a lot of time and energy.
My letter to the service follows: I mean this in the nicest way possible, but I am quite disappointed with my experience. First, I was matched with a plastic surgeon. There is absolutely nothing about that man that speaks "commitment-minded" or interested in any sort of meaningful relationship whatsoever. First of all, the guy works from 6 am to 11 pm, Monday through Friday.
He is in private practice, so he works these hours by choice. He works every other Saturday and also works most Sundays. This is the reason why his wife cheated on him and left him essentially his words not mine; "she was upset I left her home alone all of the time with two young kids. Isn't this the type of information you try to get out of a client before you set them up with women?
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I have read quite a bit about Selective Search on the internet, and found quite mixed reviews. In Barbie's Glenn Beck interview, she claimed to turn away men that were not ready for relationships. I call BS on that claim. I understand that Barbie is a client of the plastic surgeon, so she should also have known what he is like to be around, maybe a good surgeon, but not Mr. Also, she is probably aware of the fact that the plastic surgeon's wife cheated on him when they had two young kids.
Ladies, women don't usually cheat unless they are emotionally abandoned. Another thing that bothered me was the fact that I purposely submitted a humorous picture to demonstrate my humor and it was cropped. So, are you really trying to match people up based on personality, or are you simply trying to match an old man with money with an attractive woman? Truthfully, I shouldn't have given plastic surgeon so many chances. I really thought he was shy and probably a little damaged by his experiences.
However, after a recent attempt to reconnect and you would love his texts to me It is my opinion that the man wanted this: I will break it down: The last time we went out, he had me park in his garage so the neighbors would see, and looked around to make sure no neighbors were looking before giving me a simple goodbye kiss! I would think that your service would weed out this type.
Seriously, what in god's name would make any of you think that I would be interested in a decrepit old man? Most of the guys I have dated, including my ex-fiance, are gorgeous and about my age. I could smell his grandpa breath from a mile away. I was completely turned off when he told me that he has dated numerous Eastern European women that were much, much younger than him and could barely speak English.
So, apparently, he moved on from the "mail order brides" to Selective Search.
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He was a nice enough guy, but would any of you date him? What makes you think I would? A couple of weeks ago, I got a call about a year-old doctor. Do you think I want to change diapers when I am 60? Your service accepts money from men who have the benefit of seeing pictures of women, choosing their hair color, height, breast size, butt size, receive a skin rating, etc.
This is based on what I read in an article written by a journalist that visited your office for a day. The women do not even have the opportunity to see pictures. You match men with women who would never even give these men the time of day under normal circumstances. In my opinion, Selective Search is more like an escort service, not a matchmaking service. I am sorry that I joined.
Again, please do not call me again. Further, I hope that the reputation of your company is more important than the money the plastic surgeon has paid. This man has absolutely nothing to offer and is not remotely capable of having a loving relationship. If you can find a woman who does not like phone calls, meaningful conversations, hugs, nice notes, kind words, time, effort, love, affection, fun times, more than 3 hours of time a week, honesty, then the exalted plastic surgeon is perfect. You are lucky that I did not blast your service online.
What an awful and degrading experience.
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Finally, I regrettably had my neighbor sign up for your service and she was equally repulsed. The woman is hot and a surgeon and you apparently hooked her up with a chauvinist wooly mammoth. I have seen the guys she dates and that guy was gross and a jerk. Please don't take this personally. I do think you need to be more realistic with your matches. If these men think they are entitled to an attractive woman, perhaps they should go the mail order bride route.
The intelligent, attractive and independent women I know, want an equal, not creepy, old men who will treat them like hookers. For your amusement, I have attached a picture of my ex-fiance. I know you ladies are not dim. That is my equal, not the garbage you introduced me to. You should at least have the stones to tell these men that they are out of their dang league. If you are going to run a service where you are effectively setting up rich men with hot gold diggers, say it and don't pretend that you are doing otherwise!
I dated a guy who likely paid thousands of dollars to Selective Search.